Statements of Interest (SOI)
Similar to an indicator of interest, which is usually a subtle cue of some sort, a statement of interest is an explicit verbal statement that makes clear your growing interest in her. For example:
• "You know, your first impression was kind of so-so.. .but now that I get to know you, you are so incredible..."
• Buy her a drink.
• "When we met, you just seemed like another one of those California blondie girls. But since I get to know you, I actually feel nervous around you."
• "OMG, I can't believe this. Like. Can you believe we met at a bar?"
• "We're going to sit down over there, would you like to join us?"
• "You know what; you are actually pretty cool, I'm curious about you."
• "I have to hang out with you again sometime. -> Can you cook"
A well-timed SOI can work wonders.
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